Dora ([info]sigelphoenix) wrote,
@ 2006-02-10 12:29:00
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Current mood: fucking unbelievable
Entry tags:feminism and sexism, sexual violence and harassment

Oh, fuck
Your daily dose of wisdom from Phyllis Schlafly.

William J. Hetherington has been incarcerated in Michigan prisons for more than 20 years for having sex with his wife Linda.

Actually, no. He has been incarcerated for raping his wife Linda. But, you know, small difference. Rape is just sex, after all, and damn the woman who tries to say otherwise.

Linda was not a battered wife; she testified at the trial that he had never beaten her in their 16 years of marriage.

Oh, right, I forgot -- only men with long histories of physical violence are rapists! So that means I don't have to worry about anyone whose malice is expressed in forms other than physical spousal abuse, right? My mistake.

Twenty years later, despite an exemplary prison record, the parole board routinely refuses to parole him, giving as its sole reason "prisoner denies the offense."

So a man convicted of rape refuses to admit that what he did was wrong -- hell, denies that he even did it. Well golly gee, why don't we just toss him right back into society?

No physical evidence of rape was produced at the trial. A pelvic examination of Linda at the hospital three hours after the alleged offense showed no evidence of injury or forced penetration.

Bzzt! Rape =/= violent penetration. Rape can also be a result of coercion or the rapist incapacitating the victim so that she is unable to resist. Or are you one of those people who believes that rape only occurs when a man in a dark alley grabs a woman (who shouldn't have been walking alone in public and was probably one of those slutty types who wears tight clothing and can't keep her legs shut anyway). In other words, it doesn't happen to married women. In other words, it doesn't happen to people "like me."

Suchy's letter [discrediting Linda's story] is hearsay but has the ring of authenticity.

Oh, yeah! Linda's testimony isn't reliable because there isn't any (physical) evidence backing it up, but this random person's story is reliable because ... uh ... well, because Schlafly says so!

Is "has the ring of authenticity" some kind of code for "is in favor of the man"? Just wondering.

A man's life has been sacrificed, and three children have been denied their father [...]

I know, the poor, poor rapist who can't raise his children just because he raped their mother ... It's tragic. Truly.

[...] by malicious feminists [...]

*makes Scary Mean Feminist face*

[...] who have lobbied for laws that punish spousal rape just like stranger rape [..]

Unbelievable, isn't it? Those crazy feminists just don't get the fact that being married means you can never say "no"!

[...] and deny a man the right to cross-examine his accuser.

Keep in mind, people, it's only the man's rights we're worried about, here. We don't care about a woman's right to have her rapist punished.

At this point, I don't even care about the case in question. I can't say what's true or not based on what I read on the Internet. But it's dazzlingly clear from what Schlafly and other people have written that their primary concern lies with preserving the reputations of possibly innocent men, rather than defending or even sympathizing with the victimized women.

Only in rape cases do you see so many people so willing to sacrifice the victim for the sake of the perpetrator.




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[info]rivendellrose
2006-02-10 09:06 pm UTC (link)
Schlafly is one scary, scary woman. Crazy fucking bitch.

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[info]sigelphoenix
2006-02-11 08:50 am UTC (link)
I sometimes think that the pseudo-feminists/"empowered" women who talk as much as Schlafly does (Christina Hoff Sommers is another name that springs to mind) are more scary than sexist men. Because not only do they perpetuate sexism, they give sexist men material to use when they pull stuff like, "Here, a woman says sexism isn't a problem so it must not be!" :P

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[info]rivetcat
2006-02-11 11:51 am UTC (link)
Yeah, they're terrifying. And...incomprehensible to me, really. I mean, how do you argue passionately in favor of your own disenfranchisement? It's sort of the same problem I have with the Log Cabin Republicans; there's something terribly, willfully blind in the willingness to assert that people who treat you like second-class citizens are right.

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[info]sigelphoenix
2006-02-11 07:28 pm UTC (link)
My best guess is that they've absorbed the message of "man good, woman bad" (or "straight good, gay bad," for the Log Cabins) to an extreme. If men are better, it's better for them to try and please men than win anything for themselves. Sure you get treated like crap, but the way they think, men's approval is of more value than women's equality. It's like a more extreme form of repressing homosexuality because of internalized homophobia, or the oreo/banana/apple people who try to be white.

Also, hi -- Laylah, right? I don't think I've ever LJ-talked to you before. :D

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[info]rivetcat
2006-02-11 09:47 pm UTC (link)
Yup! This are my sekrit identity. ^^
Nice to meet you!
I'd been reading enough of your posts over Kiwi's shoulder that it seemed like I should start just watching you myself.

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[info]miss_arel
2006-02-10 11:33 pm UTC (link)
*makes Scary Mean Feminist face*

*sporfles* Now that I have to see.

And I'm with Jen. Scary, scary bitch.

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[info]sigelphoenix
2006-02-11 08:51 am UTC (link)
I'm too much of a pansy in real life, sadly. :P If I could be as scary and mean as feminists are often made out to be, I'm sure I'd have far fewer problems with encountering sexism ...

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[info]maho_kiwi
2006-02-11 04:51 am UTC (link)
[...] who have lobbied for laws that punish spousal rape just like stranger rape [..]
So unreasonable! Forcing sex on a stranger is way more reprehensible than forcing sex on someone you've promised to love and care for >->;

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[info]sigelphoenix
2006-02-11 08:52 am UTC (link)
Yah, totally. Violated trust is never a lingering psychological wound!

Also, I <3 your icon.

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[info]maho_kiwi
2006-02-11 01:12 pm UTC (link)
If she married him, clearly it is her job to have sex with him. Clearly.

Sadly, I have few occasions to use this icon. Oh look! Stupid people! A reason! Yay!

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[info]sigelphoenix
2006-02-11 07:17 pm UTC (link)
Well, yes! I mean, shouldn't you be able to expect faithful service from all your household appliances? The dishwasher washes dishes, the vaccuum sucks up dirt, and the wife provides sex and make babies!

*considers the possibilities of sic'ing Stitch on the stupid people*

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yeah.
[info]txfeminist
2006-02-22 08:16 pm UTC (link)
I read this, and was amazed. my favorite line is,

"who have lobbied for laws that punish spousal rape just like stranger rape"

this statement clarifies what she's really saying: That it's OK for men to rape their wives. It's not really about this guy and whether or not he "did it". She doesn't care if he did it or not. She clearly says here that she believes he has a right to rape his wife, and that wife-rape should not be a crime.

Oh and - this -

"Only in rape cases do you see so many people so willing to sacrifice the victim for the sake of the perpetrator."

You can also see this in domestic violence cases.

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Re: yeah.
[info]sigelphoenix
2006-02-23 08:45 pm UTC (link)
Great point. I shouldn't forget the huge bias in DV cases - and also sexual harassment, come to think of it.

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